Stare Down

I can stare him down, all day. Nice hair!

I can secretly tell a guy that I am interested in him when I play the “staring game.” I keep it to a minimum because a) I have a trucked-up gaydar I can’t rely on and b) its just plain psycho.

You will know, with time, that I fall very fast for the masculine guy. Duh, if I like guys I have to love their masculinity but there are gay guys around that are more in touch with their feminine side (probably a bit too much). No harsh feelings please, its just my taste in men. Although I do think of myself as the “girl” of the relationship I do have my masculine traits and that was true in my past relationship. I was the guy who watched sports.

Anyways, I wanted to share the fact that I can never, ever stare at someone for more than a second. Its funny because if someone stares at me I don’t follow through. I would love the moment when I stare at a guy, he stares back at me and we both have this staring match. Nothing freakish of any sort, but something to laugh about afterwards and kind of break the ice.

–ViJay

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